Going through a divorce can feel like one of the most difficult and painful experiences in life. The rejection, the arguments, the loneliness—it all takes a toll on your heart and mind. However, even in the darkest times, there is hope and healing. These five powerful quotes from Saint Mother Teresa offer solace and perspective for anyone struggling to rebuild after the pain of divorce.
1. On Your Own Self-Worth:
When you feel lonely, when you feel unwanted, when you feel sick and forgotten, remember you are precious to Him. He loves you.
Divorce can damage your self-image and make you question your worth. The harsh words and rejection you face may leave you feeling like you’re not enough. But remember, God created you, and to Him, you are priceless. You are deeply loved, even in your struggles. The word "divorce" is not your identity—it’s something that happened to you. Allow yourself to rest in the knowledge that you are precious to God, and His love for you never wavers.
2. On Prayer In Difficult Times:
Perfect prayer does not consist in many words, but in the fervor of the desire which raises the heart to Jesus.
When you're suffering, prayer can feel distant or hard to grasp. Sometimes, after a divorce, it’s difficult to know how to pray or even what to say. But prayer doesn’t have to be formal or wordy—it’s a conversation with God. A heartfelt cry of “Lord, help me” can be just as powerful as a carefully recited prayer. What matters most is connecting with God, especially during times of pain.
3. On Lighting Our Path:
If I ever become a saint—I will surely be one of ‘darkness.’ I will continually be absent from Heaven—to light the light of those in darkness on earth.
The loneliness that often follows divorce can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone. Saint Mother Teresa’s words remind us that the saints, including her, are always with us, lighting our path through the darkness. When you feel isolated, call upon Saint Mother Teresa and your heavenly family to guide you, pray for you, and help you find peace.
4. On Letting Go and Trusting God:
Jesus is going to do great things with you if you let him, and if you don’t try to interfere with him.
Divorce can cause us to cling to past hurts, replaying painful memories that keep us stuck in a cycle of sorrow. These flashbacks, while natural, can become obstacles to healing. Letting go of these wounds and forgiving those who have hurt us opens the door to God’s healing power. Forgiveness may not happen overnight, but it’s a necessary step toward moving forward and allowing God to do great things in your life.
5. On Uniting Our Suffering with Christ's Passion:
Remember that the passion of Christ ends always in the joy of the resurrection of Christ, so when you feel in your own heart the suffering of Christ, remember the resurrection has to come. Never let anything so fill you with sorrow as to make you forget the joy of Christ risen.
Final Thoughts
Divorce may be one of the hardest challenges you’ll ever face, but it doesn’t define who you are. As you journey through the healing process, take comfort in these words from Saint Mother Teresa. God’s love for you is unwavering, and with time, you will rise from the ashes, ready to begin a new chapter full of hope and purpose.